Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - I don't have good choices in friends and dont know how to change that? - Let me start by saying I'm not a kid, but a married women with two kids of my own. I think I make bad decisions when it comes to who to trust and not trust, I've noticed a pattern over the years of me choosing to be friends with people who end up using me. Example: I helped a friend paint her daughter's room, and when she told me she was claiming bankruptcy (and was obviously upset) I took her out to breakfast to try and cheer her up. Today, I found out my son will need to be hospitalized in the next few days (or risk a major surgery where part of his colon is removed) and asked if she could come to a store with me to keep me company cause I was feeling upset and she said she had pajamas on and thats why she couldnt go. I am bummed. I feel like I try so hard to be a good person and am there when a friend needs me but the second I say, hey -