Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - Bf wants to join AF not sure about? - we have a daughter not married but would now if we had to so he can join without giving her up . . . but i have two kids with my ex can he still join . . . if yes another ? will my credit mess him up from joining because i have to file bankruptcy because of my ex thanks for the help . . . oh yeah i dont need to hear stupid stuff about how stupid it was to mess my credit up i know i get it okay . . .