Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - My boyfriend is irresponsible.? - He was in major debt when I met him, in fact his father is trying to get him to file bankruptcy (at age 31) and will pay for the fees. He drives around without car insurance and completely ignores all of his bills. When I met him he was in the process of starting an internet business for which he got an investor to give him 9K for it, then once it didn't do so well he completely abandoned the project without even trying to reformat it or market it and now this guy is calling him everyday and he just ignores him. I'm 33 and I need to find someone stable to settle down with, but leaving a guy because of his financial status seems very artificial.