Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - Toxic interdependency? - I'll give you a synopsis: br br I have a 7 yr old daughter, for whom I have shared custody in the form of an interim agreement with the mother, who also resides in the same city I do. (just a different suburb). br My mother has overtaken my time with my daughter - her reason for this vary every time I ask. br I have no job, declared bankruptcy in Sept. 09. br I'm on social assistance in Montreal Canada. br I have an anxiety disorder, though the source is long known to be this toxic mother. br br Now, I need a new flat because my apartment is too expensive and I am behind in rent. br For referral: cannot get one unless I pay the outstanding debt. br I have been out of work 2 yrs - so no job background recently and credit history is backruptcy. Nor can I get a co-signer. br I have 730 to live off each mth. br My education is outdated - I was once in IT and have tried to upgrade but no one to sponsor me. br br My mother is toxic to my life.