Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - Should my husband take a job in another state? - My husband and I live in Indiana along with my two children from a previous marriage. My husband has been out of work for almost six months and has put out thousands of resumes with no offers, recently he got offered a job in Texas, in order for him to go me and the children would have to stay behind for atleast three months to go through the courts to be allowed to go out of state, and even then their would be no guarantee that we would be allowed to go, meanwhile my husband would be living in an apartment by himself in Texas, The new job is has fantastic pay and as of right now weve went through all of our savings and if we dont do something soon were going to have to file bankruptcy and will face foreclosure on our house.