After 21 years of hurt, I'm finally turning my life around, I can say its happiest I have ever been. I believe everyone deserves their chance of happiness - you got to let it be like a butterfly; it in time it will come your way in its own time. I got the best life I have always wamted, I am moving into my first property with my fiance, we are getting married next April and I am finally settling down. Now that may not be a lot to most people - but who cares its what makes me happy. Everyone has their own version of happiness - whether if its their children, their loved ones - its what makes their happy no one elses opinion really matters. Be grateful for what you got rather then what you haven't. I got the life I never thought I would get, but it seems my chance of happiness has finally come my way....