A relationship with an ex is the ultimate comfort br There is a certainity about it br A constancy to their unvarying dislike of everything you did br And anything that you do now. br br Not many things in life are as set in stone br as the scorn you have for the ex and they for you br The love may never have been, br but the dislike is certainly mutual now. br br Other people can come and go br And your heart may bounce like a yo-yo br But your ex's distrust of you is constant and everlasting br the consistency of the emotion - so comforting. br br Knowledge, as they say, is power br Indeed it is powerful to know br where you stand with your ex br Nowhere. br br Nowhere do you figure in the ex's life br The certainity of that statement gives security br There is no more turmoil, br no more anticipation, no waiting for something to change.