My father beat my mother, br setting a very bad example. br But I did not follow that. br I love my wife very much. br br My father was a chronic smoker, br causing him a malignant lung cancer. br But a cigarette I never touch, br because I know it is not good for my lung and heart. br br My father was a heavy drinker br causing him cirrhosis of liver. br Even beer I never drink, br because I know it will put my health on the brink. br br My father was very poor, br because he was a lazy worker, br As poverty hit very hard, br making my fighting-spirit very tough. br br Those were blessings in disguise, br a good lesson for my life. br I suffered a lot by those bad habits. br I don't want my wife and kids suffer a bit. br I want to be father-unlike son, br giving my family warmth like a dawning sun.