Don’t drift off into spiritual BS crap br like surfers BS-ing about the holiness of surfing. br Talk about what you admired, br and I don’t’ mean his car br and its aluminum V-6 engine br and dashboard navigation system. br Speak with emotion, br especially in a winsome way. br Raise your eyebrows. br Obviously, don’t go negative, br particularly about what a goddam control freak he was br and how he would never back down in an argument br or give you the benefit of the doubt.