Sun appears in the east br Has a new quest br In the middle at noon br And then set in the west. br br Think of her as a flower. br All flower's are beautiful, br But each needs a specific br Amount of sunlight, nutrients, br And water to flourish. br br When you are in the light, br everything will follow you... br But when you enter darkness, br even your shadow br will not follow you. br br Learning how to love your wife br in a Mature way is like a raising br Productive Vegetable garden. br If you dumped half a bag of fertilizer br on your vegetable garden br and let it sit for three months, br and to be sure You'd have a lush garden. br br But something went wrong none survived. br ' burned' your vegetables with too much br fertilizer. Your intentions were good but your br knowledge was limited. A husband can fail in br much they same way if he does not know br Exactly how much of each 'love ingredient' br His wife needs. br br For a marriage to flourish, br A Wife desperately needs to know br She has a very special place in her husband's heart. br Let her see your consistent and sincere efforts br to correct offensive actions or words. br br A woman isn't impressed with a man who br seek forgiveness or admit he is wrong br and then continues to hurt her br year after year in the same areas. br Words are nice, but they are not enough. br Attitudes, are not words or actions, br often harm a woman the most. br br When she sees her husband's br attitude changing, she is more willing br to hope again to be with him and br accept him into an intimate relationship. br Otherwise, she'll keep him closed off for br fear of being offended again.