If i could identify what makes me happy br I am wondering If identifying it br would make me happy? br br If happiness is love or money br would mere identification br result in bliss? br br No, I would then have br to identify what steps to take br to obtain love's best. br br But steps sounds like something I would plan br and planning sounds artificial br and can love come from artifice br or worse manipulation? br br Can I manipulate my loved one br into loving me and live happily ever after? br br Or should I leave love to random chance br and hope for the best br when so much is at stake? br br Should I wait passively br for love to find me? br br All of this not so easy. br br What of money? br br I could plan riches br by training, earning or cheating br the Wall Street Way, br br but that obviously can go awry br or even if not br shall I cling to the dollar almighty br and proclaim happiness? br br If money did this br then the rich br would be happiest of all; br and clearly they are not. br br So what to do here: br talk about second best? br br Well, if life is not going to make me happy br it is either I misunderstand what is involved br or I should take the money and the random love; br br marrying someone who br is at best a risk br and br 50 likely to bring me not happiness br but unhappiness and divorce.