It is said that you can only be a virgin once br I am not so sure. br br For virginity may be more than physical br and may have to be measured br in emotional purity. br br You can make a mistake br and squander that first time br with the wrong person br but does that mean that br virginity once squandered is lost forever? br br I don't think so. br br How many of us even br remember IT, br so tense that first-time experience? br br Rather, I think br It like most things in life br relies on practice br to get it right. br br Rather, I think that virginity can't be lost br on mere amateurs br who had no idea br of its' importance. br br Rather, it depends on my frame of mind. br br My virginity was not lost; br IT can only be given br and after several times br and after several mistakes br it is bestowed upon the one br I really loved. br and you know br I now know br the difference br because virginity br isn't given away br unless it releases br in the act br purity and true love.