it does not matter if you're male or female br in the mind of a abuser br they will always prevail. br when you allow the abuse from the start br in you life, it becomes a part. br br whether it's verbal or physical, it matters not br you let it start, and it won't stop. br the verbal can be more damaging than the physical br because it becomes daily. br br like a sculptor chipping away at its mold br until it becomes the way that they want it to be. br and if you don't stop it br you will never be free. br br they do it because of their own inadequacy. br which is something that their mind won't see. br how much abuse should you take br before it becomes much to late? br br the verbal abuser will always put you to the ground br and expect you to not make a sound. br they will tell you that you was put here to serve. br and to make a move, you have no nerve. br br that you must obey their every command br and that you are the scum of the land. br if you have no - or low self esteem br it is something which will be seen. br br and when an abuser has you in their sight br no matter what you do, it won't be right. br STOP the abuse, before it's too late. br for this can not be your destined fate. br br the verbal abuse will always start first br then from there, it will get worse. br YOU must walk away, so that they can see br a victim you will not be.