I know some people br who have experienced both br the pleasure and the pain br and some of that pain still remains br with them to this day. br One had the pleasure when they were young br when the pleasure they had br was classed as wrong br and they became the scorn of the community. br They then fell in love, br but no wedding bells did play. br Now they say they live in sin. br What sin is this you ask? br When two people live together br and share their life with one another. br Maybe they are not married, br but their lives together are happy. br Who are we to condemn them br for everything they have, br certainly not I. br How can you condemn them br for living together as man and wife? br The answer is you cannot br for when you look at it br many marriages are only just br two signatures on a piece of paper.