Most people say when you find your soul mate you will know br that is right, they are usually an asshole. br Hey, with all kidding aside br most were not here to be with me in this life. br I know it sound strange from all the romance br you here br but soul mates are human and don't have to be dear. br They can just teach you a lesson that you needed to learn br some will help you better discern br how to find a person that is not toxic and appreciates br who you are br you want to be ready for the "real deal" br when it comes knocking on your door.