| What is it about the word success and its use in conjunction with the word women?\rbr\rbrSuccess can occur when executing a business project. Or when you pass a test. Or finish a marathon.\rbr\rbrBut we never say, Im successful with my friends.\rbr\rbrNor do we say, Im successful at life.\rbr\rbrWhy not? Because our important relationships, those that lie at the core of our lives, are to be appreciated and enjoyed.\rbr\rbrIn our relationships with women, there is nothing to win, and there is nothing to measure. Like our relationship with life itself, these are experiences to be had a treasured, not events to be figured out.\rbr\rbrWhen we let go of our attachment to get something out of it or to get this area of our lives handled--when we understand that there never was anything to succeed at in the first place, then we are able to experience our relationships the way they are meant to be enjoyed.