Its good to be spiritual, but don't delude yourself into thinking that u don't have needs and that u r above getting hurt. I would love to enjoin all Christians where ever I go, but many have such high price tags on their fellowship that for me to be a part of them I have to basically take all I know and am walking in and throw it out the window and start all over. This is a human understanding of who I am, based on the fact that I am not geographically at their church, therefore I'm classified as backslidden.