br When you have been dumped, there are any number of theories about how to win ex back. Most of them involve playing head games with your ex. But, when you mess with her head just to win her back, you are on a shaky foundation for moving forward in the relationship when things are patched up. This article is the no-games way to win ex back. br br When you were going out, she would text you two dozen times a day. Now your phone is silent. While you donâ??t want to overdo it, calling her once a week or so just to â??keep in touchâ? keeps the door open for a reconciliation. br br To this end, make sure that you call her on important days like her birthday. Sending a card or a small gift wouldnâ??t hurt either when you are trying to win ex back. br br Keep in touch by email. If there is a news story she might enjoy â?? whether it is about poverty in Africa or a profile of Shane West â?? send it to her with a nice (short) note.