Successful people are almost always the victims of relatives and friends who are less successful.br There are two types;br 1. The one who truly needs help and will rarely ask.br 2, The type who plots and schemes to separate you from your money.br What to do?br Be a victim once and only once and then separate yourself from such an abuser.br Recognize that you are at fault for not judging the character of the abuser.br Make it a point not ever to have any more dealings with the abuser.br I have been victimized and these techniques work for me.br Whatever you do, do NOT contemplate revenge. Never.