Lenny Kravitz Has Been Celibate , for 9 Years.br In an interview with 'The Guardian' published on May 30, the 60-year-old revealed that he's been celibate for almost a decade.br "It's a spiritual thing," Kravitz said.br "I have become very set in my ways, br in the way I live," the rocker continued.br Kravitz was married to br Lisa Bonet from 1987 to 1993.br The couple shares a daughter, Zoë Kravitz.br Lenny has also been romantically linked to br Vanessa Paradis, Adriana Lima and Nicole Kidman.br Lenny has also been romantically linked to br Vanessa Paradis, Adriana Lima and Nicole Kidman.br Lenny has also been romantically linked to br Vanessa Paradis, Adriana Lima and Nicole Kidman.br In 'Let Love Rule,' Lenny's memoir, he talked about how his father, Sy, cheated on his mother, which seemingly influenced his decision to become celibate.br After the marriage, I became more br like him. I was becoming a player, Lenny Kravitz, via 'Let Love Rule'.br I didn’t like it. I didn’t want br to be that guy. So I had to br tackle that and it took years, Lenny Kravitz, via 'Let Love Rule'.