Age gaps... kind of funny right? No I mean... like way back people used to be fine with age gaps... a 40 year old dates a 20 year old, nobody freaks out, women are optimal for child birth in their 20's, it's science, a lot of older guys are finally ready to have kids now that they're financially stable... but noooooo. Let's be offended by science, that's cool. Meanwhile a 40 year old woman dates a 20 year old guy, and you call the woman "empowered" - that's satire.