Men don't give a damn about your material possessions. br Women do care about material possessions. br Therefore you're trying to attract a woman with your material possessions. br br Now if you're an independent woman and you want a man you could start by; br br 1. Checking your attitude - No man wants a woman who throws around the "I'm independent" slogan all the time like we didn't hear you the first time. Quit throwing how you can do for yourself that will make a man go somewhere else. Trust me. br br 2. Quit crying - I hate how these bitches are strong one minute then become little girls when they can't find a man the next. You want to be my equal, quit crying like i would tell a fellow man. br br 3. Stop making excuses - You can't find a man probably because you're manly. I'm sorry but a woman that works has a mentality that is aggressive and she's like that all the time even when outside of the work place. I rather have a soft feminine woman than a woman with corns on her feet and rough hands because she's working like she's a man.