--- For the first few weeks, it may be best if you don't go to the places you and she often frequented together, and don't try to hang out with what should be mutual friends.br You can pick up these extended relationships later, but for now, concentrate on things you know make you feel good that do not have a connection to himher.br If you have trouble coming up with something to focus on, take some time to think about the kinds of things you enjoyed before you began your relationship.br Did you have a hobby you've kind of let go? Was there something you were passionate about before you and she met? Really give it some thought, and then start to do those things.br The more involved you become in doing things that make you feel good, the better you will feel.