- urinary retention - bladder shyness - irritable bladderbr br What would your life be like WITHOUT paruresis?br br The freedom to go wherever you want to without being br concerned about where you’ll go to the bathroom?br br Ending the struggle that comes with the constant br anxiety in the pit of your stomach?br br Not having to worry about how far you are from br home or a "safe" bathroom?br br Not having to hide your fear from people or be embarrassed?br br Throwing out your limitations that steal your enjoyment of life?br br Having the chance to finally focus on work, school, or your family br instead of your anxiety about using a public bathroom?