Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - Is there a link between what a females is drawn to as a future mate and her relationship with her father? - Look, this could be really long and the question stemmed out of the fact that I've never had a successful relationship that resulted in even a happy ending.. or even an easy parting of ways, I guess you could say. Basically, a lot of terrible relationships.. still alone. It's not just me, my sisters as well have had terrible relationships. My oldest sister was infatuated with a sociopath whom she had married. She was married and pregnant (with her second child), to this man when she had found out the first time he had cheated on her with a friend of hers. The only way she found out was due to my mom's observance, with which she severed all ties with at the time, because of his influence on her.

The second time he cheated resulted in divorce, which was quite foreseen due to the fact that he had quite literally pushed her into our arms before he had cheated. I could go on forever but there is another sister to include in this mix.

The second sister, the middle, has a relationship with a man who is, to put it nicely, incredibly selfish (sound different?). He has racked up debt in her name, bikes and clothes.. anything a boy can dream of, since they've been together. My sister was going to school at the time when they had met. My dad provided my sister a credit card, for emergencies because she was in college. When my sister started dating him, she decided to stop going to class. My dad asked for the card back, rightfully so. She had then thought that it be a good idea to max out the card because he asked for the card back. Not that my sister isn't responsible for her own actions, but it was incredibly weird that all of that betrayal had come about since her new mate had been in her life. This was just a first in a long line of debts owed to people who were close to her.

There was a lot of using of her debt. Not just his/her debt. They've borrowed thousands from my mom.. only to have it discharged in bankruptcy. He has this weird thing about boasting to others and lying about how awesome he is.. even when they have borrowed from me because they have gotten in the hole w. their bank accounts. They have a daughter now.. and not that she goes without -